Thursday, October 30, 2008

Hope Is Not A Buzz Word


Image from The Huffington Post

This blog by John Mayer for The Huffington Post synthesizes something I've been saying for a long time. When my Dad asks why I believe in Barack Obama I respond that it's about more than just policy, it's truly about hope. He represents a hope for the future, a belief that there are politicians that care about us and that don't make us feel stupid for caring about them in return. I truly believe that there is a genuine bond of trust between Obama and the electorate. We are a generation born into cynicism and raised with the fear of 9/11. 9/11 was the most formative event of our generation, and it has affected both subconsciously and consciously in ways that we still don't even know. I was 16 on 9/11, and it will forever be a part of me.

On September 12th, 2007 I wrote the following blog.
Avoiding The Day:
I didn’t even realize I was avoiding it until the day was over.

I caught a little bit of the memorial pictured above on SportsCenter, but only by accident and I subconsciously left the room when it came on. I spent most of the day in my car listening to new music, I watched a movie, I did laundry, I ate out (twice), I did everything but think about September 11th. It’s not that I forgot, I knew exactly what day it was, it’s one of the first things I thought about when I woke up. I just didn’t want to think about it.

When I try to think about it, the thought itself prevents me from being able to think. There is so much emotion and memory that my heart blocks my brain from being able to get very far.

I don’t want to forget, but sometimes it’s hard to make myself remember.

-Alex

We are a generation that has never known what it's like to believe in a candidate or even in our government. But we want to have hope, and we want to care. We want to America to be everything we know it can be. I believe in Barack Obama, I trust Barack Obama. And it feels good.


This says it perfectly:

HOPE IS NOT A BUZZ WORD:
By, John Mayer
The Huffington Post

I was 23 years old when the nation was attacked on September 11, 2001. I can remember hearing pundits say "this changes everything" and "things will never be the same." Obviously it was a tragic and traumatic event, but that sentiment has carried on through the better part of my twenties. If you were 43 years old on that day, I would imagine it was a difficult concept to get your head around as well, but if you were a young adult just entering his or her individual life, there was an added twist; how can you process the idea of everything changing and things never being the same when you have no point of reference for what "everything" and "the same" is? I was just beginning to put my hands on the world around me, to interact and engage with it, and to actualize the dream of being an adult in a free society. To wait in line for 23 years only to have the "sorry, future canceled" sign flipped in my face was depressing, to say the least.

The social and political narrative of the last eight years, if you're a young adult, has been "you are the first generation of the second half of the rest of human existence." That's a huge psychological undertaking, and I believe it's one that will someday be diagnosed on a massive scale as having led to a kind of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. (Something has to explain away our premature obsession with 1980s nostalgia.) My generation has come to know itself as the generation that should have seen the good days, my, were they spectacular, now take off your shoes and place them on the belt.

What Barack Obama says to me is these days are good for something. Just when I'd thought my only role as an adult was to help shoulder the nation through its darkest days (known to us as "the rest of them"), Obama gives me the feeling that I could be alive to witness one of the most brilliant upturns in a country's history. Imagine that -- a young adult in this day and age being given something to someday brag to his children about having being alive to witness. What a concept.

That's why hope is a worthwhile commodity. To those who question whether hope is a tangible product worth building a campaign around, I'd say take a look at despair and how powerful that has been in reshaping how people think and live. I believe the definition of the "hope" that Barack Obama enthuses operates on the unspoken thesis that there has to be a polar opposite to the despair of 9/11. Because if we accept that there's not, the will to live becomes forever altered. To adults who will vote for him, Barack Obama represents a return to prosperity. To the youth, he represents an introduction to it.

RoboCop

Can't wait for the album.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

To Do

  1. Wake Up. 
  2. Eat Cereal.
  3. Watch Mad Men on laptop.
  4. Go For A Run.
  5. Vote.
  6. Eat Lunch.
  7. Write (because it's your job, remember?).
  8. Socialize.
Nowhere on this was write or read a blog, yet I'm doing both.

Update: 7:17 PM
  1. Check.
  2. Check.
  3. Check.
  4. Check.
  5. Check.
  6. Check.
  7. Check.
  8. Check.
First time I've done that in a little while.

Monday, October 27, 2008

CHRIS! ROCK! CHRIS ROCK!!!




Last night I went to the Laugh Factory for a show of basically unknown comics, and then towards the end a, "very special guest" was announced. All of a sudden Chris Rock starts walking up the aisle next to me and hops on stage! Not to mention I was in the front row. Apparently he's going to be on The Tonight Show tonight, and he wanted to work out some new material. I've always hoped to be at a comedy club, and have a huge comedian come unannounced to work out some new material like I had seen in Jerry Seinfeld's Comedian , but to have it be Chris Rock, was like a dream come true. He just went up there and just basically freestyled for 15-20 minutes, putting jokes together as he went. It was awesome to watch a genius at work. Yeah, genius, and I don't mean that in any kind of funny way.

Just to give you an idea of how cool this was for me, when I was a kid I watched The Chris Rock Show late at night on HBO (which was way too adult, and way too late for how old I was), read his book in a day, and have seen all his movies and HBO specials. I think that him and Jerry Seinfeld are probably two of Top 5 comedians of all time, and now I've seen them both perform in person.

I don't even know if I wrote this well enough to make it worth reading, but I don't care, last night was awesome.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Sex Drive



Sometimes I just like to go to the movie theater by myself, look at the marquee and just go see whatever is playing soonest. Last night it was Sex Drive. I arrived at 7:48 and it started playing at 7:50. Perfect. I was unsure about this movie from it's trailer, but I like Clark Duke from www.clarkandmichael.com and the director made his way in through the ultra indie rout so I was glad to give it a shot.

I definitely think if you're looking for a fun couple of hours at the theater this is worth a shot. Pretty well done, and a lot of good little jokes throughout. Also, for those of you who care, it was shot by Director of Photography Tim Orr, who is the shit.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Bee-Tee-Dub (btw) ((by the way))

I really liked the movie Good Dick. I wrote about this movie about a week ago, and went to see it soon after. Check their website to see if/when the movie is playing in your town, and if it isn't (and it probably isn't) I recommend that if you like indie films you should rent this on Netflix when it comes out on DVD.

Powell Endorses Obama



If that doesn't do it for ya, I don't know what will.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Hilarious



I remember watching this years ago, and now, thanks to HULU we can all enjoy it.

All the fun of To Catch A Predator without any of the messed up reality. Here are Julia Louis-Dreyfus and a bunch of perverts learning how to make a myspace page on a SNL.

"One-thousand one-hundred and ninety-one is my favorite number."

Friday, October 10, 2008

Good Movie, Possibly.



This movie called, get ready . . . Good Dick, actually looks pretty good. The title seems unnecessarily provocative, but it's hard to get movies made and even harder to get them seen, so I understand why they did it. In addition to costarring the hilarious Martin Starr of Knocked Up, Undeclared and other Apatow family productions, Good Dick is from first time writer/director/star Marianna Palka. I've got a ton of respect for anyone who can successfully do one of those three jobs, let alone the triple threat. I hope Good Dick is a good movie, and I will hopefully get to go see it this weekend. Here is the trailer.

p.s. Good luck googling images from this movie without seeing a ton of random dong.

Update: Finally found the film's website. There are very limited screenings, so if you want to see it you better plan ahead and live in big city. www.gooddickthefilm.com

Mail Goggles = Hilarious and Brilliant. My favorite combination.

Google has invented Mail Goggles . Essentially it makes you go through a series of tests (math problems, etc.) before you can send an email. As far as I understand it, the user chooses times that it would like to have Mail Goggles activated (Weekend Nights) and then it helps prevent you from sending drunken emails. I'm not much of a gmail user, I only have a gmail account for this blog, but I'm just a fan of the concept.

Kathryn Hahn




My sister has just emailed me to tell me that she recently saw Boeing Boeing on Broadway and particularly enjoyed Kathryn Hahn in the play. You probably know Kathryn Hahn from her supporting roles in How To Lose A Guy in 10 Days, Anchorman, The Holiday, and Step Brothers, but you will also get to see her in the film I posted about below, Revolutionary Road.

She's kind of like the Jeremy Piven of actresses, but before Jeremy Piven got famous for becoming Ari Gold . She's in a ton of stuff, she's always great, but very few people know who she is. And because Adam McKay and Will Ferrell know what's up, the first feature film made by their production company, Gary Sanchez Productions , stars both Piven and Hahn. It's called The Goods: The Don Ready Story , and it should be coming out in the Spring of 2009.

I would also like to add that she is probably one of the nicest people you could meet. Hollywood or otherwise.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Revolutionary Road

The cast, the director, the cinematographer, the editor, the composer, and on and on are all impeccable. I can't wait for this one. Oh, and it's from a novel by Richard Yates, who I believe is the real life inspiration for Elaine's dad on Seinfeld. Here is the trailer. And here is the song from the trailer.

Friday, October 3, 2008

Campbell Brown



I'm currently watching Campbell Brown's Election Center on CNN. I've never watched her before, but I like her. She seems smart, not annoying, and attractive (ignore the ridiculously airbrushed photo above). Don't judge me for liking attractive anchorwomen, I know you girls watch Anderson Cooper for more than the commentary.

But that's besides the point, the reason I'm writing about this is because when I googled Campbell (yeah, I feel like we're on a first name basis) I found this interesting article she wrote about the sexist treatment of Sarah Palin.

Wink And A Smile

I'm sure a better winking montage could be made of Sarah Palin but for the time being this one will have to do.

Online Dating: A Theory



First of all, that logo is creepy. And I don't overuse the word creepy, you really must earn that title from me.

Okay, here's my theory. I think that online dating is, in a weird way, taking the place of traditional dating in our culture. Here's what I mean: In the old days it was okay to ask somebody on a date (maybe even showing up with flowers), pay for dinner, call them, do nice things for them, and be clear about your intentions. You didn't have to hide that you liked someone when you went out with them. You were on a date, and both parties knew that the intention was to see if there was a romantic connection.

These days, that doesn't happen. You hang out, you text, you stalk on facebook, maybe you even hook up. But god forbid you should go on a real date, or actually show someone that they mean something to you, because that's just creepy.

This is where internet dating has stepped in. While it was once a medium that was looked down upon by society, it seems to me that more and more normal people turn to internet dating these days as a way to meet people. And the reason they are doing this, is because it is clear. When you meet someone on the internet there is no confusing whether it is about being friends or dating. That first in person meeting is undeniably a date, and both people are aware that there are romantic intentions. This leads to people actually going on dates and making progress towards a relationship.

So in a weird way internet dating has come full circle and gone from being the least traditional form of dating, to actually being one of the last things left that resembles dating.

And finally, here's the problem. There are those of us who still want to meet people in person, but everyone is at home all night on the internet, and slowly but surely more and more normal and even cool people are doing the online dating thing, so the pool of people that are looking to meet other people out in the real world is steadily shrinking.

Well, I'm here to say that I'm going to continue to try to date via the real world web, and I hope you do to.